by Paulette Henderson

During these challenging economic times, more and more moms are returning to the classroom. The reasons are as varied as the moms who are returning. Some women find they need to complete their degrees to improve their chances of returning to the work force, especially once their children are in school. Other women may be working mothers, fully employed in careers that require continuing education in order for advancement and promotion. Still other moms may have lost their jobs and are returning to school for retraining.

Whether for personal fulfillment or professional development, moms face unique challenges when returning to college. They have to balance home, work, and homework.

The Study Habit

It’s tough for a mom to tell her kids to do their homework when she hasn’t started her own, and it’s harder still to schedule time for studying, especially for moms who have young children. However, one of the most difficult challenges is picking up good study habits again. A mom who confidently flexes multiple schedules, skillfully negotiates the delicate balance between home and career, and artfully wears many hats, will often skid to an awkward stop in the face of structured learning.

Secret worries and questions can paralyze any mom who is considering becoming an adult student. Some of the most common questions include, What if my brain won’t do algebra equations? How will I figure out the Internet requirements? How has learning changed since I last sat in class? An effective answer to these questions lies in a small and powerful lesson adults teach children about getting through school and homework – Ask For Help.

Accessing Information

Carolyn Kinslow, Ph.D., Director of the Center for Writing at Cameron University, says, “Studying has not changed much over the years. What has changed is the way we access information and services.”

For example, the Center maintains an extensive online presence to keep step with the many online classes now available on campus. Tutors are available to help students navigate online writing labs, but they also encourage writers face-to-face, in every discipline across the campus, in every stage of the writing process.

Most institutions of higher learning provide a wide range of services in these specialized labs. Students can get help finding information on assignments, campus life, and subjects such as computing, math, and writing. Also, most colleges offer labs that provide free access to computers, the Internet, and printers.

Schedules and Sharing 

Many classes and, in some cases, entire college programs are now designed to fit the working person’s schedule, including classes during the day and evening, weekend seminars, and online classes (also called distance learning and e-learning). Talk with a unversity counselor to see if these types of programs are right for you.

One of the most abundant sources of energy and help comes from fellow students. Classmates, whether adult learners or traditional-aged students, share the same challenges and experiences. Sharing study tips, class notes, and ideas can help lighten the load. Most of all, enjoy the experience.  After all, one day you may be encouraging your own child to pursue higher education.  

Paulette Henderson is a freelance writer living in Anadarko, Oklahoma.

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